WHEN YOU FEEL BETRAYED
Everyone has experienced pain in his or her life.
Personally, the greatest pain one can experience is being betrayed by
the most trusted person, it could be your friend, best friend or even
girlfriend and boyfriend. Everyone has his own definition of betrayal, too.
It is when you tell somebody a secret and he told it to somebody else; it is
something that you do not know but your best kept it from you; or friend you
consider the closest is also to somebody you do not like.
Betrayal for me is something like eavesdropping. You listen to a conversation
but pretend you are not; or you are willing to help but your real motive is to have
someone to gossip about.
Emotions are cheaters. There are so many things you feel that are not true
or not really happening. Confirm first before reacting. If you react without
even confirming and confronting the person the tendency is to betray your
"betrayer". Then you'll find yourself doing the same thing you most dislike.
So what is the next best thing to do? Confrontation after Confirmation.
Confront the person involved. Listen to his side of the story and pray with
him that it will never happen again. But make sure that the experience will
never stop you from trusting again, or else you will always doubt the
trustworthiness of the person next to you.
That is one great Advise!
I'm not trying to be a holy here!, the thing is, when you confronted the person
are you really sure that the answer he/she wanna give you is something you wanna hear?
Or your just trying to be a hero? People have the tendency to lie, hide, and lie.
Meaning? At 1st He/She will lie to you making excuses just to get to out of your sight
THEN he/she got busted (101% wala ng kawala) and the only thing he can do is "LIE AGAIN".
Was that legal? the law of COnfrontation after Confirmation? then WHAT?
Thats it? Just let it go?
Oh WELL!!! Change TopiC!!!
SA MGA SAWI!!! KASAMA NA AKO DUN (hehe SIKRIT)
Konting tiis lang mga pare darating din ang ligaya! Ang umaga ay ngiti din para satin!
hehe... RONAN and PAT, kaya yan!!! HAHA... kapit kamay lang!!! HAHA... mabubuo
din puso nio ulit haha, kaso yung isa asa akin eh haha yung kalahati!!!
Gerard, let it go, wag ka muna maghabol, believe me i've been in that situation, it won't
help you, mahirap talaga ang ganyan!!! Don't be sad nawala man sya sayo, andito padin
ako mahal kong kaibigan di na dapat pangamba na pati ako mawawala kasi talagang hindi!!!
WOW!!! First ENTRY FOR THE YEAR 2007 haha
by: kurisuchin
Personally, the greatest pain one can experience is being betrayed by
the most trusted person, it could be your friend, best friend or even
girlfriend and boyfriend. Everyone has his own definition of betrayal, too.
It is when you tell somebody a secret and he told it to somebody else; it is
something that you do not know but your best kept it from you; or friend you
consider the closest is also to somebody you do not like.
Betrayal for me is something like eavesdropping. You listen to a conversation
but pretend you are not; or you are willing to help but your real motive is to have
someone to gossip about.
Emotions are cheaters. There are so many things you feel that are not true
or not really happening. Confirm first before reacting. If you react without
even confirming and confronting the person the tendency is to betray your
"betrayer". Then you'll find yourself doing the same thing you most dislike.
So what is the next best thing to do? Confrontation after Confirmation.
Confront the person involved. Listen to his side of the story and pray with
him that it will never happen again. But make sure that the experience will
never stop you from trusting again, or else you will always doubt the
trustworthiness of the person next to you.
That is one great Advise!
I'm not trying to be a holy here!, the thing is, when you confronted the person
are you really sure that the answer he/she wanna give you is something you wanna hear?
Or your just trying to be a hero? People have the tendency to lie, hide, and lie.
Meaning? At 1st He/She will lie to you making excuses just to get to out of your sight
THEN he/she got busted (101% wala ng kawala) and the only thing he can do is "LIE AGAIN".
Was that legal? the law of COnfrontation after Confirmation? then WHAT?
Thats it? Just let it go?
Oh WELL!!! Change TopiC!!!
SA MGA SAWI!!! KASAMA NA AKO DUN (hehe SIKRIT)
Konting tiis lang mga pare darating din ang ligaya! Ang umaga ay ngiti din para satin!
hehe... RONAN and PAT, kaya yan!!! HAHA... kapit kamay lang!!! HAHA... mabubuo
din puso nio ulit haha, kaso yung isa asa akin eh haha yung kalahati!!!
Gerard, let it go, wag ka muna maghabol, believe me i've been in that situation, it won't
help you, mahirap talaga ang ganyan!!! Don't be sad nawala man sya sayo, andito padin
ako mahal kong kaibigan di na dapat pangamba na pati ako mawawala kasi talagang hindi!!!
WOW!!! First ENTRY FOR THE YEAR 2007 haha
by: kurisuchin
Currently feeling: BADTRIP na ANTOK
nakakakilig kasi pink na (which is fave. color ko,, parang wow!!) No names, just the flower, and the card saying...AY! nide ko napicturan HAHAHAHA sa Cell ko pala HHAAHA nakalagay dun smile naman dyan :D i miss you...) Damn! sobrang sweet at kakakilig haha...